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Moving in together workbook for couples
Before You Move In Together
Build a shared home around agreements, not unspoken assumptions.
You may agree on the future and still picture daily life differently. Before You Move In Together gives you a calmer way to discuss money, chores, boundaries and shared routines, so you can make practical agreements before either person has to guess what the other expects.
Book + Toolkit
$42The complete guide plus worksheets, decision pages and the shared-cost calculator to help you put the conversations into practice.
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If this sounds familiar
Being excited to live together does not mean you have discussed the everyday details.
“We agree on the big things, but what about everyday life?”
“I do not want money conversations to become arguments.”
“We have never actually said what fair looks like to us.”
Why this exists
You are not only combining homes. You are combining two versions of normal.
One person thinks dishes should be done right away. The other thinks later is perfectly reasonable. One expects shared money to mean one thing, while the other has quietly pictured something different. Neither person has to be wrong for everyday friction to appear.
This guide creates a calmer way to talk about the practical details before they become loaded. It helps you compare expectations, make decisions together and record what you have actually agreed.
The difference it is designed to make
Make the unsaid visible
Bring out assumptions about money, chores, guests, space and routines before either person mistakes them for shared agreements.
Discuss fairness properly
Explore equal, proportionate and custom ways to share household costs without assuming fair always means exactly 50/50.
Create your shared normal
Turn useful conversations into practical decisions you can revisit after the first month of living together.
What is inside
Useful pages with a clear job, not extra pages added to make the product look bigger.
Choose the Book Only edition or the Book and Toolkit bundle with worksheets and a shared-cost calculator.
This guide supports practical conversations. It is not counseling, therapy or legal or financial advice.
- ✓Approximately 25-page practical guide to shared everyday life
- ✓Conversations about money, chores, boundaries, guests and routines
- ✓Mine, yours and ours decision prompts
- ✓Book and Toolkit option with a 17-page practical toolkit
- ✓Toolkit: household responsibilities map and first-month check-in
- ✓Toolkit: shared-cost calculator for equal, proportionate or custom contributions
How you use it
Open it when you need it. Work through what matters. Come back as life changes.
- 1
Read the guide together or separately and mark the conversations that matter most to you.
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Talk through one area at a time rather than trying to settle your whole future in one evening.
- 3
Record your agreements in your own notes, or use the included decision pages if you choose Book + Toolkit. Revisit them after living together for a while.
A practical fit
This may be useful for you if...
- You are planning to move in together and want to discuss the practical side calmly.
- You have talked about the big future plans but not the small daily expectations.
- You want a fairer conversation about money and household work.
- You prefer useful prompts and worksheets to a relationship quiz or compatibility score.
Before you decide
A few practical questions.
What is the difference between the two options?
Book Only includes the complete practical guide. The Book and Toolkit bundle also includes the worksheets, decision pages and shared-cost calculator.
Do we have to agree on every question?
No. The aim is to understand each other’s expectations and decide what needs an agreement now, what can wait and what may need revisiting.
Does the calculator give financial advice?
No. It helps you compare possible ways to divide shared household costs. It does not recommend a financial arrangement or replace professional advice.
A calmer place for the details
Build a shared home around agreements, not unspoken assumptions.
Book Only $27 | Book + Toolkit $42
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